Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of Leah Gilbert with the following comment:
Am doing my husband's side of the family tree as far back and completely as I can so our grandchildren will have the information. We live in Vermont, USA and have no way of getting a photo of the gravestone otherwise. Leah and William Gilbert are my husband's 3rd Great-grandparents. I am sorry that people in general have become so thoughtless as to not acknowledge the receipt of the images requested and the effort you put into doing so. I hope you are able to derive satisfaction from knowing you are helping people out who probably might not otherwise have access to the information and that you are keeping ancestors that otherwise might be forgotten, alive in family histories, in the process. Thank you,Louisa Anderson